The Midwest Divorce Coach: Guiding You from Uncoupled to Unstoppable

At Uncoupled Divorce Coaching, we empower individuals navigating separation and divorce to thrive. We focus on growth, clarity, and creating your next chapter. Divorce is an emotional rollercoaster and a logistical maze, but you don’t have to face it alone. With certified coaching and practical tools, we’re here to help you move forward with clarity and confidence.

Facts About Me

  • Minnesota 218 Proud: I call the Northland home, where Lake Superior inspires calm. 
  • Coffee & Trails: Coffee fuels my mornings, and hiking recharges my soul.
  • Laughter is Medicine: Humor is my survival tool—even in life’s messiest moments.
  • My Mantra: “Progress, not perfection.” Because moving forward is what matters.

My Story

Hi, I’m Jessa

I didn’t set out to become a divorce coach, but life had other plans. After going through my own mess of mistakes, I realized what was missing – someone who really got it. Someone who could guide me through teh chaos with compassion and a bit of humor. So here I am , offering what I wish I’d had.

With my background as an educator and now being a single mom, I bring a unique perspective to help others thrive. I’ll walk this journey with you, sharing lessons from my own experience and helping you move forward, one step at a time.

Divorce doesn’t define you. Together, we’ll make it the catalyst for your best chapter yet – you will thrive and make it through.

What makes Uncoupled different:
Unlike other coaches, I’m here for all stages of the process – from the moment you’re thinking, “Should I stay or should I go?” to the tricky chapters that come after. Every step along the way matters.

Why Work With a Divorce Coach?

Separation and divorce can be overwhelming, but you don’t have to face it alone.  

Here’s how Uncoupled Coaching helps:

  • You’re not sure where to start or what steps to take.
  • You’re drowning in advice, but none of it feels helpful.
  • You want to save time and money by making clear, confident decisions.
  • You need support and strategies to move forward.

Where Does Uncoupled Divorce Coaching Work?

I’m based out of stunning Duluth, Minnesota, but I offer coaching services nationwide. Wherever you are, I can help guide you through this challenging time.

Here in the Midwest, we get each other.

  • We measure drives in minutes, not miles.
  • We embrace humor as the ultimate survival tool—even during divorce.
  • We understand the difference between temperature and temperature with the wind chill
  • And yes, we debate “hotdish” vs. “casserole” like it’s a sport.

Whether via phone or video, our sessions are tailored to meet you wherever you are.

How It Works.

1. Clarity Call:
Start with a free 30-minute consultation to ensure coaching is the right fit.

2. Choose Your Plan:
Opt for a single session or commit to a package for deeper progress.

3. Transform:
We’ll tackle challenges, set goals, and create a roadmap for your next chapter.

Real Talk

Coaching isn’t for everyone, and I’m not for everyone—and that’s perfectly okay. The coaching process works best when there’s honesty, trust, and a shared commitment to growth. If we work together, you can expect straightforward advice, practical tools, and maybe even a little humor to lighten the journey.

Note: I’m not a therapist or a lawyer, but I’m here to guide you with clarity, confidence, and support as you take your next steps.

Let’s Start Your Journey—Contact Me Today!

What Happens When You Work With Me as Your Divorce Coach?

Let's Break It Down!

I’ll Listen:

Your story matters. I’ll hold space for it and share actionable insights.

We’ll Set Goals:

Together, we’ll identify what’s important to you and create an action plan

We’ll Celebrate Progress:

No matter how small the steps, having someone on your journey makes all the difference.

Feeling lost, confused, or stuck? Coaching can help.

But here’s the truth: It’s not for everyone, and I’m not for everyone.

Please Note:
I’m not a therapist, and I don’t give legal advice. What I do is work with people ready to reflect, grow, and create positive change.

My Clients Are:

While divorce looks different for everyone – my clients are bold, resilient, and ready for change. They refuse to stay stuck. They’re ready to reclaim their power, set goals, and move forward. If that sounds like you, we’ll be a great fit.

Does that sound like you?

If so, I invite you to schedule a 30-minute consultation. We’ll discuss where you’re at, where you want to go, and how I can help you get there

Certifications

Common Questions

Discover the Journey with My Divorce Coaching Approach.

I’m your divorce GPS—cutting through chaos, offering strategies, and keeping you focused and accountable as you move through all of the stages of the process.

I work with anyone navigating separation and divorce—men, women, LGBTQ+, and everyone in between.

As soon as you’re ready to take control. Book a clarity call today!

No, but let’s be real—your peace of mind is priceless

Nope! Coaching is for individuals. If you’re looking for couples counseling, I recommend finding a great therapist.

Yes and yes! Divorce has phases—thinking about it, going through it, and figuring out life after it. I’m here to help no matter where you are in the process. Whether you’re deciding if it’s time to leave, managing the chaos of the split, or rebuilding your life post-divorce, I’ve got your back.

Before, during, or after your divorce—whenever you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start moving forward. Whether you need clarity, strategy, or a reality check, I’ve got you.

Because Google can’t give you a pep talk, your friends aren’t neutral, and your lawyer charges way too much for emotional support. I help you get unstuck, stay focused, and handle divorce like a boss.

Anywhere you are! Sessions are virtual, so you can show up from your couch, your car, or wherever life has you hiding from your ex’s texts.

Easy. We meet online for 50 minutes, dive into your challenges, and create a game plan. You bring the coffee (or wine), I bring the clarity, strategy, and occasional snark.

Therapy dives into your past; coaching focuses on your future. Think of me as the coach on the sidelines, not the therapist in the armchair. I won’t unpack your childhood, but I’ll help you crush your next chapter.

Coaching is a process, not a quick fix. I require a minimum of three sessions to ensure we make real progress—anything less is just surface-level. We’ll start with a clarity call to see if we’re the right fit, and from there, we’ll create a plan that works for you. No commitment, no fluff, just results.

As soon as you’re ready to stop overthinking and start making moves. Book a clarity call, and we’ll figure out if we’re a match. From there, it’s game on!

Not yet, but here’s the deal—I just went through a divorce myself and I’m rocking single mom life. So, yeah, I’m working on it! Stay tuned because good things are coming.