The Midwest Divorce Strategist: Guiding You from Uncoupled to Unstoppable

Divorce is a rollercoaster and a logistical maze—but it doesn’t have to be navigated alone. Uncoupled Coaching offers real strategies, practical tools, and straight-up guidance to help move forward with clarity and confidence. Whether it’s making the decision, managing the process, or creating a co-parenting plan that works, every step matters.

This isn’t just support – its strategy. The right approach makes all the difference. 

Why Uncoupled Coaching?

Divorce is more than emotions—it’s decisions, strategy, and next steps. Family and friends mean well, but they aren’t experts. Therapy helps you heal, but it doesn’t map out how to get through it. And expensive legal fees? They add up fast—especially if you end up back in court.

That’s where strategy changes everything.

Uncoupled Coaching helps you move forward with clarity, confidence, and a plan.

My Story

Hi, I’m Jessa—Your Divorce & Co-Parenting Strategist

I didn’t plan for divorce, and I definitely didn’t plan to become a strategist for it—but here we are. Life threw me into a full-blown dumpster fire, and instead of letting it burn everything down, I figured out how to rebuild. Now, I help others do the same.

With a Ph.D. in education and a certification in divorce coaching, plus firsthand experience navigating single parenthood, I bring real strategies to cut through the chaos. No fluff. No judgment. Just straight-up guidance with a mix of experience, humor, and a roadmap to your next chapter.

At Uncoupled Coaching, the focus isn’t just on surviving divorce—it’s about strategizing your way through it. Whether you’re stuck in the “Should I stay or go?” phase, navigating the legal and financial maze, or trying to co-parent without losing your mind, every step matters. Parenting plan reviews, co-parenting strategies, and decision-making support? It’s all covered. You don’t have to do this alone.

Facts About Me

  • Minnesota 218 Proud: The Northland is home, where Lake Superior reminds me that even the roughest waters eventually calm.
  • Fueled by Coffee & Determination: Mornings start with caffeine, and getting through life’s toughest transitions takes a strong brew and even stronger resilience.
  • Humor Is a Survival Skill: Life’s messy. Divorce is messier. If we can’t laugh at the chaos sometimes, we’re doing it wrong.
  • My Mantra: Progress, Not Perfection. No one gets it all right, but moving forward—even if it’s messy—is what matters.

Why Work With a Divorce Coach?

Coaching can help—but here’s the truth: It’s not for everyone, and I’m not for everyone.

Separation and divorce can be overwhelming, but you don’t have to face it alone.  

Here’s how Uncoupled Coaching helps:

  • You’re not sure where to start or what steps to take.
  • You’re drowning in advice, but none of it feels helpful.
  • You want to save time and money by making clear, confident decisions.
  • You need support and strategies to move forward.

What You Need to Know:

I’m not a therapist, and I don’t give legal advice. What I do is work with people who are ready to reflect, take action, and create real change—without wasting time, money, or sanity on the same mistakes I made. Divorce is messy, but progress matters more than perfection.

Who I Work With:

Divorce looks different for everyone, but my clients have one thing in common—they refuse to stay stuck. They’re bold, resilient, and ready to take back control. They want a plan, real strategies, and a way forward.

Let’s See If We’re the Right Fit.

Schedule a 30-minute Discovery Call, and we’ll talk about where you are, where you want to go, and whether Uncoupled Coaching is the right next step for you.

Let’s Start Your Journey—Contact Me Today!

1. Discovery Call:
Start with a 30-minute consultation to determine if Uncoupled Coaching is the right fit. Come with a few key questions—we’ll make sure this is the right next step for you.

2. Pick Your Path:
Choose a single session for quick guidance or a package for deeper transformation.

3. Make Real Progress:
Tackle challenges, set goals, and build a strategy to move forward—without wasting time, money, or energy on the wrong steps.

What Makes Uncoupled Coaching Different?

Unlike others, I don’t just show up for one stage of the process. I’m here for the entire journey—before, during, and after—because divorce isn’t just an event, it’s a transition. And the goal isn’t just to get through it—it’s to come out stronger, clearer, and ready for what’s next.

What You Need to Know

Discover the Journey with My Divorce Coaching Approach.

Real talk—you don’t need a divorce coach. You can piece it together with social media advice, endless Googling, AI chats, pricey attorneys, and a whole lot of trial and error. That’s exactly what I did. But if you’d rather avoid the wasted time, money, and stress, I can help you cut through the noise and move forward with a plan that actually works.

Divorce is complicated, emotional, and expensive—but it doesn’t have to be harder than it already is. The right strategy helps you avoid costly mistakes, keep co-parenting on track, and move forward without wasting more time, money, or sanity than necessary.

I help you:

  • Cut through the confusion
  • Save time and money
  • Get real answers, not just advice—so you can make smart decisions with confidence.

You can do this alone. But there’s an easier way—and it starts with having the right plan.

Think of me as your divorce GPS—cutting through the chaos, offering strategy, and keeping you focused as you navigate the process. No fluff, no legal jargon—just real guidance to move forward with clarity.

I work with anyone navigating separation, divorce, or co-parenting. Every situation is unique, and all circumstances deserve support, guidance, and a strategy that works. If you’re ready to move forward, I’m here to help.

As soon as you’re ready to take control. Book a clarity call today!

No, but let’s be real—your peace of mind is priceless.

No. Coaching is for individuals. If you’re looking for couples counseling, a therapist is your best bet.

Divorce happens in phases—considering, going through it, and rebuilding after it. No matter where you are, I help you make smart decisions and avoid costly mistakes.

Before, during, or after your divorce—whenever you’re tired of spinning your wheels and want a real plan.

Because Google can’t give you a pep talk, your friends aren’t neutral, and your lawyer charges way too much for emotional support. I help you get unstuck, stay focused, and handle divorce like a boss.

Wherever you are. Sessions are virtual, so you can join from your couch, your car, or anywhere in between—while I bring the classic Midwest charm with my stellar wood-paneled backdrop.

We meet online for 50 minutes, tackle your challenges head-on, and create a game plan. You bring the coffee (or wine), I bring clarity, strategy, and the occasional reality check.

Therapy dives into your past; coaching focuses on your future. Think of me as the strategist on the sidelines, not the therapist in the armchair. I won’t unpack your childhood, but I’ll help you handle what’s next.

Coaching isn’t a quick fix. I require a minimum of three sessions to make real progress—anything less is just surface-level. We’ll start with a discovery call to see if we’re the right fit, then build a plan that works for you.

Not yet, but it’s in the works. I’m juggling business, single mom life, and making big things happen—stay tuned because I can’t wait for what is coming!

As soon as you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start moving forward. Staying stuck won’t get you where you need to go—trust me, I’ve been there.

Book a discovery call, and let’s see if we’re the right fit.